Discord Server has been made

I have created a Discord Server, but as of right now I only have 2 Moderators counting myself, and the other one has his hands full, so I am waiting on my god sister to see if she can help. Until then I will not post the Invite Link, but I have set up a lot of channels I even made specific sexuality channels that need the 18+ role to access, since you need that to get the sexuality replacement ones, verification needs to be sent before you gain the 18+ role, the verification that is sent will be promptly deleted, with only one person able to be verified at a time due to it being done via the server not DM, only one person at a time will get the role to allow them to send their verification in order to gain the 18+ role, where as the 18+ Role Request role is essentially the waiting list role.